Apologies

     I once  had a coworker  who would say that it was easier to apologize after doing whatever she wanted to do than it was to ask permission first.. Perhaps this is true, but some things aren't so easy to apologize for and it is much better not to do in the first place. Sometimes no amount of verbal apology will result in reconciliation.Sometimes rifts run too deep and some things cannot be undone. I think its better to be considerate of what one does and says . Life isn't a dress rehearsal.

apologies

sometimes when people apologize i feel like they aren't really apologizing, they are just trying to get me to say that what they did  was okay that i should accept them for who they are even though they have  hurt my feelings . sometimes this is true. sometimes it isn't.. once someone tried to apologize to me and i didn't think that they would really listen to me . i didn't think that anything would change so i didn't express myself. so many times before i was told to suppress my feelings because of others  that i figured if i had said something that it wouldn't make any difference. because it usually did not make a difference.   maybe it would have. maybe it would not have. now i will never know.