no cookies for me

now i get it. those of us who don't fit the cookie cutter mold of average are doomed to have a harder time finding a spouse. even though i get it , i do not think that it is fair. no matter. i still have to be true to myself, otherwise i won't be happy. sigh.

still got it

once again its almost valentine's day which is yet another opportunity to sulk about my singular status. well anyway, at work ,while trying to keep my non-romantic valentine's day plans a secret the  twenty-two year old puerto rican ups guy asked me if i would be his valentine on valentine's day since he didn't have a valentine either. granted, he's the wrong religion, but i guess i can't say that no one wants to be my valentine this year!!! and  a younger man to boot! lol! i hope to have better luck next year.