listen

     So many people play interviewer while dating . I don't and somehow I find out a lot more about people than the interviewer types. This is because I actually listen to what the other person is telling me about himself. Its not that I do not ask any questions , its just that  I don't opt for mistress of interrogation mode.
People tell you everything you need to know about them, if only you would listen.
     If a guy tells me he is at a specific religious level that is not mine  i believe him. If someone tells me that he does not want to get married  I believe him. If a tells me that he does not want to marry me I believe him. I don't second guess him and think that I know better when the person himself has stated clearly and specifically differently. Who knows a person better than ones self? Believe what a guy tells you about himself. He means it. He does know himself better than you do. Spare yourself the heartache and just listen.

equal anomolies

every day i hear of women x years (very) old giving birth to healthy babies that were from her own egg. other times i hear of sixty year old men marrying  women young enough to be their daughters.  both of these scenarios are like crack to those with unrealistic expectations.

i do not care which is more likely, its just interesting to note that each gender has its own share of unrealistic expectations and it really is quite amusing to sit back and laugh at. it would be even more to poke fun of if i wasn't still single.