Wednesday, January 20, 2016

The Right Age

      Is it better to get married older or younger. Since I have done neither it may seem odd that I am writing this. Nevertheless I have an opinion so write I shall.
      I think that it is better to get married younger because one is less set in one's ways when one is younger. One is also more likely to have biological children if one marries younger. If one marries younger and stays married to that same person one has the possibility of a deep long relationship with another person. I love seeing old couples who have spent their lives together.
     People who marry older can still have long marriages , children and a life with another person . Not everyone finds a spouse in their twenties. Not everyone is ready for marriage at a young age. A lot of people who marry young divorce and marrying young does not guarantee having children young.
       Some people who got married young regret not having the time on their own before meeting their spouse. They regret having children so young . They divorce to relive lost youth.
         No matter what age one marries one does not get everything one wants . That's just how life is. All one can do is their best .
     

2 comments:

Mighty Garnel Ironheart said...

So here's the problem. Studies show that women in their 20's want men in their 20's. Men in their 20's want women in their 20's. So far so good.
The problem is that women in their 40's want men in their 40's but men in their 40's want women in their - wait for it - 20's so what does that do for women in their 40's?

frum single female said...

Lol. So true. There aren't enough women in there twenties for men in their 20's, 30's, 40's and beyond. No wonder there's a singles "crisis " 😃