Saturday, October 2, 2010

sometimes you just have to be a b@*%

when i first started attending singles events i was always polite to  nerdy men who would chat me up. i felt it would be rude to be mean to them. now i know better. if i am too polite to some nerdy men they will never leave my side because im the only woman who will talk to them. it really stinks that this is how it is, but this is how it is. there are some men who use this tactic as well. they  may say hi to me at a singles event, but then they will quickly walk away. they don't even want to give me a moment to speak to them  too much because they think i will think that they like me. i don't think im such a loser that they have to resort to this, but i do understand. they're just not interested . sometimes you just have to  do what you have to do. sometimes you just have to be a b@*%


Anonymous said...

Ha, ha. I loved this post! I feel the same way when it comes to nerdy guys :) in my shul, there are plenty of them, and I try to be nice to everyone, but they take it as an open invitation to insert themselves in every conversation I have with other I feel your pain.

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