Sunday, September 7, 2008

if you are single today ....

if you are single today, do you truly believe you will ever get married?
i put up this poll today because i think many singles dont really think that they will ever get married. they are just so burnt out from the whole dating game that they fear it will never end.
i understand the sentiment, but i think that the attitude is counterproductive if its what one feels everyday. not just every so often. we all have our off days, but i think its best to think positively.
i believe i will get married at some point. if its at a time when i am still fertile. i dont know. i do however believe that i will get married. im not pollyanna either. its just that i truly believe that there is someone out there for me.
forget what the shadchanim and every rude busybody says. fat people get married. ugly people get married. rude people get married. mean people get married. rich people get married. poor people get married.
so why not me?
or you?

2 comments:

halfshared said...

I agree with you..you are 100% right. Everyone has a bashert and when the time is right, nothing and nobody can stop it. Hope you find yours very soon!

frumskeptic said...

You're right on needing to have the right attitude. I'm only 20 and I feel burnt out. I cried before my last date. I really didn't want to go out, I just didn't want to.

But I don't feel like that everyday, which is good. And I know that someday I'll find him.

Iy'h by you :-)