often people like to wonder what would have happened had one made different choices. like lets say if i had chosen to marry one of my past boyfriends instead of having remained single.
well.... in the case of... let call him felix... its just as well i didnt choose to marry him. if i would have married felix, i would now be a widow. i found out a few years ago that felix died. and yes.. i do have to say im glad i didnt decide to marry felix. its funny , because for several years after we broke up i wondered whether i we had made the right decision to call it quits. well.... now i know i did make the right decision.
i wouldnt say that i would never want to try again with any ex , its just that sometimes the past is best remaining just that. and though one doesnt know at the time why one might have come to a certain conclusion, sometimes one finds out later down the road that the decision was more correct than one had ever imagined.
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How do you know its a good thing that you didnt marry felix. Maybe you would like being married to him and it would be great to be with him until he died.
true, i dont know what what might have been . and i cant change my mind because felix is not alive anymore. i have made peace with what is.
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