time stops for no one

my friend's mom passed away recently. she had cancer. its very sad. her mom was such a nice lady. although she was my friend's mom, i didnt realize how old she was. she had such a youthful personality. i went to the shiva at my friend's mom's house. it was so weird for her not to be there. i know that death is inevitable for everyone, but when it happens its always such a shock. i guess its better not to think about it too much. it could be very depressing . if i thought about death too much it would be hard to enjoy life.