Nothing more depressing than someone telling me a guy I may be interested is interested in finding someone a lot younger than I am even though he is my age. It explains a lot- like why he has never asked me out, and though I suspected as much, its still upsetting. Men so have the advantage. What makes it difficult is that age is something that's a fact, its not something one can do anything about. I try not to let the age thing get to me but this time it hit me like a ton of bricks.Then again, there is no guarantee that a guy looking for a much younger woman will find that much younger woman even if that is who he seeks.